Why Etiquette Matters

India is very welcoming to guests, and people are usually happy to help you. At the same time, some customs are different from Western countries, especially in villages.

Following a few basic guidelines will help you avoid misunderstandings, show respect to local people and feel more at home during your stay.

Greeting People – “Namaste”

The most common and respectful greeting is “Namaste”. You gently press your palms together in front of your chest, slightly bow your head and say “Namaste”.

This greeting is always safe to use with men and women, in villages and cities, and works well in homes, schools and religious places.

Dress Code for Volunteers

For Men

• T-shirts or shirts with sleeves and long trousers are usually fine.
• Very short shorts or clothing that shows the thighs should be avoided in public places.
• Simple, clean clothes give a good impression in schools and villages.

For Women

• Clothes should cover shoulders, chest, back and legs below the knee.
• Tight or revealing outfits, mini-skirts, low necklines and strappy tops can attract unwanted attention and should be avoided.
• Loose trousers, long skirts, kurtas and long tops are comfortable and culturally appropriate.

In Temples and Holy Places

• Dress modestly – arms and legs should be covered; a long-sleeved top is recommended.
• Always remove your shoes before entering a temple, mosque or other place of worship.
• Use your right hand, not your left, to offer or receive anything near a sacred place.
• Sit in a respectful way and avoid pointing the soles of your feet towards the altar, priest or elders.
• Follow any written instructions and observe what local people are doing if you are unsure.

Public Behaviour

• Public hugging and kissing between couples is generally not accepted and can make people uncomfortable.
• Pointing directly at someone with your finger or whistling loudly in public is considered rude.
• Standing with your hands on your hips may be seen as aggressive; a relaxed posture is better.

Using the Right and Left Hand

In India the right hand is considered clean and respectful for giving and receiving things. Use your right hand when you offer money, food, gifts or documents.

The left hand is often linked to unclean tasks, so try not to use it for eating, passing food or touching shared items.

Shoes, Feet and Personal Space

• Shoes and feet are seen as unclean, so avoid touching people or furniture with your feet.
• If you accidentally touch someone with your foot, a quick smile and small gesture of apology is appreciated.
• Do not touch another person’s head, including children, as the head is considered a special and sensitive part of the body.

Questions and Curiosity

People in villages may ask you personal questions such as your age, job, income or if you are married. This is usually a sign of curiosity, not rudeness.

You can answer simply, skip any question you do not want to discuss, and keep a friendly tone. A smile goes a long way in building trust.

Staring and Attention

As a foreign volunteer, you may notice people looking at you more than you are used to. In many parts of India, staring at something new or different is common and not meant to be offensive.

Try not to feel uncomfortable; a brief smile or “Namaste” usually turns the situation into a positive interaction.

If You Are Unsure What to Do

When you are not sure about the correct behaviour in a situation, simply observe what local people are doing and follow their example.

You can always ask your coordinator or host family for advice. They are happy to explain local customs and help you avoid any cultural mistakes.